Nov

17

Romance Is NOT In The Air~

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Girls grow up reading those romantic chick lit novels always hope for some romance in their life. Some watch it in the movies and feel, oh so romantic. Falling in love, meeting the right guy and sometimes, we justify our expectation and settle down with someone that we deemed good enough.

In real life, love isn't just so romantic. Hollywood needs to make romance movie so it that it sells. The same goes to the novel. And we are so easily sold. We wanted to believe it is true. We yearn for it. Longing our life to be like a fairy tale.

But what do we do if the one doesn't seem to be the one right from the beginning? A friend of mine finally got into relationship after many years of single-dom. I was very happy for her as she has found her happiness at last… Or so we thought.

But romance is not in the air. Dinners do not even come a couple times a week. Calls are not even frequent. The word love isn't enough to sustain the relationship. Romance is not his field, so he claimed. Sickness means dealing it yourself. Nothing he has done so far has even proven his love. Or so I felt.

Sadly, she felt the same too.

Is he even serious?

Shall she continue or shall she stops.  

If I am her, he would already be history!

So, yeah.. good luck, hon! Remember, there are plenty more trees in the forest! ;)

Comments

11 Responses to “Romance Is NOT In The Air~”

  1. Neo on November 11th, 2008 12:39 pm

    Love in the sky… :)

  2. huei on November 11th, 2008 1:34 pm

    she will find the true one! =)

  3. Grace on November 11th, 2008 10:27 pm

    …and many fishes in the sea.

  4. Dawn on November 12th, 2008 4:28 am

    Tell your friend not to waste time and look for another fish.

  5. nkwai on November 12th, 2008 9:39 am

    hmmm, what i think is that man kinda dumb on expressing his feeling if he really like her….but if he not like her, better look for other one lol…

  6. Alvin Lim on November 12th, 2008 10:12 am

    A guy who doesn’t care for his girlfriend, is not worth the time. It’ll only get worse when they get married. Leave him and find another. Plenty of nice guys out there. :)

    I know it’s hard, but if someone close to me can let go of a 5 (nearly 6) years of relationship, it’s not that impossible.

  7. echophysco on November 12th, 2008 10:38 am

    if romance is not his field, then care should be, cause it is suppose to be in everyone, no? The relationship described is just a little more than hi-bye friend, at least to me…

  8. echophysco on November 12th, 2008 10:39 am

    ditch him!

  9. janicepa on November 12th, 2008 2:57 pm

    hahaha.. i agreed with you.. better let the GUY be a HISTORY .. and FAST !!..

  10. foongpc on November 12th, 2008 11:55 pm

    I have a feeling this is a one sided relationship. I won’t advice her to end the relationship, because I have experienced advising someone to end a relationship and in the end they got back together and refused to be friends with me! So, just gave her a hint and let her decide herself!

  11. Angie Tan on November 13th, 2008 8:02 am

    I just read something which state that girls should not listen to what guys are saying but rather watch what they do. In this sense, this guy is not worth your friend’s time. ;-)

    Anyway, I had a friend (who’s married now), who had a jam-packed schedule that she used to schedule a weekly pak-tor time when she was dating her husband-to-be.

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