It is very difficult to know one’s personality if we do not liaise with them long enough. There is a lot of politic going in a particular department in my office. I always thought some of the colleagues that I often saw at the corridor washroom are nice, as we smiled politely to each other. But our path didn’t go beyond than that and I never deal with them at work level.

But obviously, people are not simple. I heard many complaints from different parties regarding each other. It makes me wonder who is right and who is wrong. But it is very hard to determine without hearing the whole stories from both parties. It could be because of communication breakdown instead. People are pointing fingers, backstabbing and putting all the blame to someone else. Some people are hurt in the process and some think they’re always right. A rather depressing situation to work in. /_\

I am just glad I am in a peaceful department. At least most of them are helpful here and I have not really heard of any ill remark of each other. Or perhaps my antenna is too short to receive them. Whatever it is, team work is really important. We do not have to love each other at work, but it would be good enough if we could work professionally as a team..

Backstabbing

Well, almost everyone knew this by now, our Prime Minister Pak Lah is getting married again. Tung told me that many forum are against his this coming marriage on the coming Saturday. But for me I think it is appropriate for him to get a new wife as his wife passed away almost two years, ok, maybe only more than a year. Personally I think being so high up in a position like him puts a lot of pressure on him and well, he must be very lonely without a companion. It’ll be good to have someone to take care of him and share his life journey.

If he is just a normal guy and not a prime minister, how many people are actually going to condemn his act? It’s not that he’s getting a 2nd or 3rd wife while his first wife is alive. I really look down on those men that need more than a wife (when his wife is still alive) but then that’s not the case now. I wish him a happy marriage and may they have a wonderful journey together. ^.^